My goal is to reach as many people as possible to help them understand where their issues come from. Give them the tools to help them heal and change their way of thinking, which in turn will help them change their patterns and action.
After the loss of my eighteen year old daughter, which was ruled as suicide; I decided to research & learn why people do the things they do.
With intense education on several subjects and attending workshops I became a counselor and speaker.
I give workshops for groups of people of different ages; in a business, churches, schools or families.  Always informing them that they do not have to share any of their personal information with the group or anyone.  Making it a safe place for them.  However, I ask them to bring a notebook to journal whatever information may be helpful or important to them.
The workshops I give begin with the importance of an individual in their mother’s womb. Because this is where our personality was originally formed. I proceed with a family tree using myself and family as examples. I continue with crisis’ or traumas in our life.  With each crisis or trauma our life was changed on that very moment.
I don’t just bring up skeletons from their closets, I also give them the tools to heal and change.  I also stress that some people may still need help and should get some counseling.

Testimonials from people who have attended a workshop

“I recently attended a workshop in which Mary Lou spoke on “SELF DESTRUCTION”, almost instantly her message had regenerated and changed my perception of something I had struggled to understand for decades.”  D. M. Blue

“This class is taught with the word of God as it’s core foundation and it’s a very positive message whether you are a believer or non-believer if you can just focus on the message being delivered you can use the materials to help you change.”  P. Salazar

“Mary Lou used her family as an example and that really helped put things in perspective because people learn in many different ways and since she used her family and showed how the curse was passed on from generation to generation it was really very interesting.”  J. Salazar

“Mary Lou has created what I now consider to be an extremely valuable, worthwhile integral step for all of us to highly consider and include in our personal growth.”  G. MCBride

“I found Mary Lou to be not just comfortably personable; but lucidly insightful and encouragingly supportive.  These qualities are assets that should be required of any teacher or guide.” 

“I liked the good balance phychologically and Mary Lou gave new insights as to background of her past and how to apply the tools.”  (no name)

“I liked the new approach/angle of current and past healing also how she related to class and invited their thoughts.”  (no name)

“Mary Lou demonstrated a unique ability to fully engage me and bring out and encourage me allowing me to feel that I was a valuable participant.”  (no name)

Mary Lou made me realize that I can change the way I think by my understanding of my issues and gave me hope with the tools she shared.”  (no name)

 J. McBride

Do you really know yourself and understand why you believe and think the way you do?  

Do you dread the Holidays?

 Dread going to work? 

Dread family gatherings? 

Do you feel unworthy, have a low self-esteem, do you make bad choices and are self-destructive?

Do you feel guilt, shame or a sense of failure?

Do you feel a void or emptiness in the pit of your stomach and turn to food, drugs, and sex or expect a mate to fill that emptiness?